In grade five we have been studying about cyber bullying. Cyber bullying is bullying using inappropriate language, bad humor, dares, and more. Where does it happen? Online games, chat rooms, phone texts, social media such as Skype, Facebook, Snap Chat, Instagram, Whats App.
Why does it happen? The bully may feel no one will ever find out who they are, people want to be cool and feel good hurting someone especially when bystanders find it funny or there might have been a bad experience between people and that causes people to want revenge. There is never a good reason to bully in any form! That is why the 5th grade decided to take action on this matter. We made pamphlets, posters and we are going to talk to the 3rd and 4th graders to try to make a change.
Tips to avoid Cyber bullying:
Don’t respond. If someone bullies you, remember that your reaction is usually exactly what the bully wants. It gives him or her power over you. Who wants to empower a bully?
Don’t retaliate. Getting back at the bully turns you into one and reinforces the bully’s behavior. Help avoid a whole cycle of aggression.
Save the evidence. The only good news about digital bullying is that the harassing messages can usually be captured, saved, and shown to someone who can help. You need to do this even if it’s minor stuff, in case things escalate.
Talk to a trusted adult. You deserve backup. It’s always good to involve a parent but – if you can’t – a school counselor usually knows how to help. Sometimes both are needed. If you’re really nervous about saying something, see if there’s a way to report the incident anonymously at school.
Block the bully. If the harassment’s coming in the form of instant messages, texts, or profile comments, do yourself a favor: Use preferences or privacy tools to block the person. If it’s in chat, leave the “room.”
Be civil. Even if you don’t like someone, it’s a good idea to be decent and not sink to the other person’s level. Also, research shows that gossiping about and trash talking others increases your risk of being bullied. Treat people the way you want to be treated.
Don’t be a bully. How would you feel if someone harassed you? You know the old saying about walking a mile in someone’s shoes; even a few seconds of thinking about how another person might feel can put a big damper on aggression. That’s needed in this world.
Be a friend, not a bystander. Watching or forwarding mean messages empowers bullies and hurts victims even more. If you can, tell bullies to stop or let them know harassment makes people look stupid and mean. It’s time to let bullies know their behavior is unacceptable – cruel abuse of fellow human beings. If you can’t stop the bully, at least try to help the victim and report the behavior.
Remember if you wouldn’t say to a person’s face or in front of an adult, do not say it online. Think before you type or post any pictures or videos!
By 5th grade students Taylor and Yoonseo